Chariklo Etkili Kova Dolunayı

Human relationships are not always resolved through talking.
Yes, one of the greatest virtues in a relationship is to be able to express yourself, to be heard from where you express, and to heal. This liberates a person, makes their traumas visible, and eases their pain. But talking is not the only or the most effective form of communication.

Our souls recognize each other even before we meet.
Some souls have chapters to close, reckonings to face.
Some have promises to help one another.
Sometimes, from a soul, we receive an enormous support just for a moment.
There is an energy that starts working the moment we come together — with every person we meet, the land where we were born, our loved ones, the places we visit…

Some people, memories, and geographies trigger the deepest wounds of our soul.
Others give us the greatest sense of trust.
Some feel very familiar, and when we are with them, we can be completely ourselves.

Talking often brings suppressed emotions, unhealed traumas, cellular memories, and subconscious voices to the surface.
But the word “talking” often evokes a wounding experience for all of us; because most of the time, rather than truly listening and creating a safe space, we try to fit the other person into our own mold.

“I feel this way.”
“When you act like this, it hurts me.”
“When you are like that, it feels very good to me.”

These are the pupils of a relationship. But when they multiply, instead of being authentically “you” when you come together, you constantly try to meet the other’s needs.
And suddenly, you realize you are no longer yourself…
You have begun to take the shape of the relationship, your partner, your workplace, or society.
Your authenticity is lost, your essence erased…

Between these two — where there is no right or wrong, where hearts communicate without speaking — there is a place.
Someone who is just right for you…
A space just right for you…

And now, this full moon carries the potential to free you from everything that keeps you from being yourself.
Notice how much you change shape for your loved ones.
Express yourself.
And remember: There are places you belong where you don’t even need to express yourself.

The guardian of this full moon’s space is Chariklo.
She is the protector of the space that knows the value of your existence, does not try to fix you, does not constantly tell you how you should behave, and does not make you feel broken…
A place where you simply exist with love, and where your being is a gift.

Now, intend to be different, to be yourself, to free yourself from the traumas society has created in you.
With so much fire and air element, allow everything burning in your heart to transform.

And don’t forget: The best medicine is to remain in service.
Boycott.
Help.
Support.
Stay in prayer.
And turn every moment into action.

Determined actions will illuminate who you truly are.